Day 6: Pet Peeves
In my choir classroom I tell my students that I have 2 big pet peeves. The first is when one of them says, "Someone stole my..." Yes, I know studies have shown that speaking English makes us more likely to assign blame to people (see about halfway down this page), but that's just ridiculous! If you are one of my students and have said that to me, I have found that 99% of the time, no one stole your stuff. You lost it. You forgot to put it back where it belongs and now you can't find it in the 2.5 seconds you spent searching for it (i.e. staring at where it should be then coming to tell me it's not there). If someone has taken it, it was an accident. Yes, your stuff is all close to each others'. Yes, sometimes people grab something right next to what they wanted and they don't notice. But this idea that you could not have possibly been to blame for your stuff missing and so someone must have maliciously taken it from you is ridiculous!*
Another pet peeve is when people talk/make noise when we are supposed to be singing/making music in choir (or a concert).
For those of you who do not read music, go here to find out what those red notes mean. For those of you that do read music, figure it out!
So my junior high students seem to think that, somehow, I do not see them talking when they are about 2 feet from me. Maybe they think I don't care. I don't mind if they talk during their theory work, once we're done with the me teaching them part. I like that they work together, a choir is, after all, a team. But when we are in the middle of the song and the altos have 2 measures of rest and 6 of them think, "This is enough time to have a conversation!" it drives me up a wall. I hate disrespectful behavior. And I know they don't see it as disrespectful. After all, they are singing when they are supposed to, and it seems like they think that's enough. *sigh*
Other than that, I don't like people waking me up on the few days I get to sleep in (and I think most people agree with me on that one), and I don't like Internet arguments because they (95% of the time) amount to nothing.
*I said "Yes," a lot in this paragraph. I just thought you ought to know.
